The position they hold is prestigious. I don't want my estate agent's services anymore, what can I do? I couldn't stop thinking about the lump in my throat I had felt during the movie. For me not wanting to leave the house is about needing safety. Hi there! You have to start caring more about yourself and taking better care of yourself. He had a good job and I’m currently a SAHM. I don't answer my phone either. I always think that I will be so productive during that off time and also enjoy my swimming pool. I remind her of the times we did do some stuff which was enjoyable and she says but that was too expensive! I don't have any advice but just so you know, none of y'all are freaks. I just read what was written here and it's my entire life story. Some days are worse than others, there have been a few times that going to Walgreens caused me so much anxiety that when I got into the car I couldnt remember how to drive. It's because you have social anxiety. They hated it. I don't like to talk on the phone and do not accept many social invitations. My mom got us cheap lottery tickets for a Rolling Stones show and lo and behold we won the grand prize, we got to be in the pit 8 feet away from Mick Jagger. People need to be free God gave us free will you need to be free just be safe and free that is possible. I take care of the house and fix all meals, but never want to leave. Right before our wedding my dad committed suicide. I don't feel depressed, or lonely or anything like that. I wish I never had to leave my home again. Red Robot had live nostalgia show at the Millville Grange Hall just East of Redding California. I don’t want to go because I can’t be around people at this time and I know I’ll have an anxiety attack if I go cause I’m already freaking out thinking about it. He is getting really sick of my behaviour but I don't know how to make myself better? I cook my meals. Am I supposed to be single? I’ve experienced so much hurt and emotional trouble in my life, that for several months now, I flirt with the idea of just never leaving my home unless I absolutely have to. But it's always important to talk to a dermatologist about any medical concerns you may have. Even though her gut warns her to stay home, visiting the island becomes inevitable—and more dangerous than she ever could have imagined. No snobby people. I don't want to adult. You should speak with a dermatologist about your answers to this quiz to get a proper diagnosis. I don't love him anymore, but can't leave. I am also currently having the same feeling, my university is far away needs atleast 6-7hours travel, I came back to home on holidays but now date of starting next session is announced and I have to go again in that place, I just now realised that I hate that city, the people of the city and also my roomates and I don't wanna go back at all but I will have to go there once again. How are you doing? But a quiet dinner with friends? 4 Answers. When he does I will "find" a major project that just HAS to be done, so that I have some justification. Does anyone else feel like this? Carrie Rodriguez Band, The Shedd, Eugene, OR January 14, 2009 Band Members: Carrie - Guitar/Mandobird/Fiddle Hans Holzen - Guitar/Mandolin Javier Vercher - Keyboard/Sax/Drums. I respect the choice they have made for themselves. I am not interested in anatomy, biology, and life sciences. I don’t want to be together 24/7. Everything I need is here. Relevance. All day I've been trying to get up and go but I just can't do it. Lori S. 1 decade ago . Don’t get me wrong, I am able to leave the house. Hope to hear you are doing much better. He's been clean 5 years now and we've been married for 3. In fact, I feel like can't do anything and I certainly can't get myself to do anything. Do these symptoms appear near your inner thighs, armpits, chest, groin, or buttocks? Remember to visit a dermatologist once you've completed the quiz, and talk to them about your answers. 'I Don't Want To Leave My House': Santa Fe's Invisible Wounds. I sure wish I could figure this problem out. I don’t want you in my bed when I’m pissed or interrupting me while I’m busy reading. The more I fret or dwell on it the worse it seems. I just want to say whoever you are, your story inspired me a little to go out today. I don't know how to over come this. Jan 5, 2010 #2 Hi LB, well you could be describing my mum and dad there. I don’t know what to do or think. You can’t keep hiding away and expecting your mood to magically change. Hopefully we will find what we need soon so we can help others. Update: I am still in school and living with my parents who think i'm weird and pathetic, because I stay in my room all day, I barely speak and if I do i'm angry (why are they speaking to me at all just go away) and I don't know what to do. I'm working all week so I if I don't do it today it will be 7 days before I can go and this is making my anxiety even worse which is … I don't know what to do. I was taught that we get the most out of life when we put God first, others second, and ourselves last, just like Jesus did. The world keeps moving forward with so much pain and ugliness that I prefer to hide! EMAIL. I feel like everyone's watching me and I can't wait to leave. I just got a stomach ache and my mom took me home. I don't love him anymore, but can't leave. im so sorry to hear about your grandfather and dad. Even alone. Im 49, dont leave my house and dont want to, trying to deal with people WANTING me to WANT to. This is their song "The Reason I Don't Leave My House Anymore" off their self-titled album. Joined: Apr 16, 2010 Messages: 3,868 Likes Received: 0. He is really suffering. Three years ago, she was calling me names and yelling. I HATE going anyplace. You should get therapy if it is affecting your work or life in general. :( I guess I'm a freak. Things came into focus. That is great!! My style is that I like to have a few close friends as opposed to a large number of acquaintances. long, i have gave up, i don't even want to be a normal teen, all i my they keep saying is we love you to much to let you go into the world or your to young. You know you can’t keep isolating yourself. Answer Save. In the last 6 months, have these bumps reappeared 3 or more times? We don't always need to know everyone and feel at home. It will make you want to venture outside, travel the world, meet new people. I’m not materialistic and hate to shop. This does not mean you shouldn't seek self improvement or try to be the best you can be. I always think that events sound fun, as long as they're tomorrow or the next day or next week, but as soon as it comes down to actually going, I always want to cancel. And the answer is no!!!!! 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I'm the same way, I've been lke this for what two years now, and it jst sucks, jst lke everyone else says, I'll set up plans which sound fun but when they come up I absuatlly don't wnat to go, I want to leave the house so bad but I dnt have the negery and when I do go out I get bad anxiety! I know I need to see a doctor and go back on my pills like before but I can't leave the house. I went to a doctor for on depression meds and it does not work! I guess what I wanted to say was no, you’re not wrong and no, you’re not the only freak. I make up excuses so people will think I'm busy. My social anxiety was ruining my life and I wasn't living the way I should be. It seems like your have avoidant personality disorder. I make up excuses so people will think I'm busy. I don't want to be like this anymore :( 26 yr old with problems.. What should I do first I don't know where to start? it's making me go crazy, i really don't want to be crazy like the rest of my famliy but i am getting closer and closer, I think families can trap you and keep you from growing. Sadness….and maybe elation if this payment doesn’t need to be made anymore. How do I know this? I try to be as understanding as I can to myself but it's still a struggle. They make a lot of money. Some were meant to be teachers, some doctors, some house wives. Since my daughter died 14 years ago, I just want to hide from the world and hope time moves on. So my husband wants to end the marriage but I don’t think he is in his right mind. 19 here and I see everyone else my age thriving in life and I feel somehow stunted. Not sure where my life is headed or where I am going. All of the feast days in the bible are free and I am on a long term strike. I'm 20 and everyone who's my age are having the best time of their lives. She is still impossible. Click here. I simply hate going anywhere, even if it's on a date, or to the mall, or to the beach with my friends. Sometimes I have energy and want to go out and other times I need to recoup or hibernate at home. Last week I had to leave the farm—for four days and three nights. he comes home and tells me he loves me we make love we have great intimacy he tells me he will be back home BUT then cannot commit to coming back I need serous help I keep begging I KNOW it does not help I cannot eat sleep function I am falling apart. When pimple-like bumps or boils start showing up in areas where skin rubs together, you may question what’s going on with your body. I can stay at home for a few days without opening the door once. I felt alive for the first time. 4. SHARE. I want to live with my dad but my mom said I couldn't 'cause she wouldn't let me. You need to go to therapy. I really don't know how much responsibility we can expect her to take for her own behaviour any more. That is if I do make it somewhere, I can never get anywhere on time. I'm 25 with a 11 month old son. we live in a tiny 500 sq feet house with 8 people. I feel like this too I'm 27 but I wasn't always like this I was the one who was putting pressure on people to go out I had lots of relationships was somewhat popular but it's like the past three years I get sick to my stomach the taught of going anywhere people drain me I'm a nice person but sometimes I give off the impression that I'm ignorant but it's not the case I'm just not a fake person I find it difficult to force fake smiles and act interested in stupid chit chat conversations I stopped talking to everyone accept my family I have one friend left and I even ignore him all the time it's like one day I woke up I had no confidence no motivation I'm basically just existing what's wrong with me I just love my comfort zone so much on my own but I don't want this forever everyday seems like a struggle what can I do? I’ve always thought we had a pretty good marriage. but being locked up for 6 years never talking to anyone your age but you sister (i am going crazy!). I just don't like to go anywhere. Even though I was feeling lazy this morning I decided to make this account to reply to you. I have no desire to do anything. I don't want to live in my house anymore. I dread holidays because my family always wants to get together and I have to make excuses. 2. Also, places like those have people that aren't exactly average. You feel you can’t leave either at all or right now. It will give you a craving for adventure. I literally want to runaway and start my own life. I love spending time with you, but I’m not a clingy person. Tell them by your presence, your kind words, your generosity, your obvious joy of just being alive that you are grateful for their sacrifice. I have a 86 year old recovering friend who has cancer and COPD. 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